Skip to main content

Gay Men of Color, Internalized Homophobia, Race, and Religion ( YouTube Video)




#InternalizedHomophobia #Intersectionality  #LGBTQ  #Race  #Religion  #DownLow #Latino  #Latinx  #Black  #AfricanAmerican

Intersectionality explains how the notion of social injustice, such as racism, sexism, homophobia, and belief-based bigotry such as religion are not independent of one another; instead, they are interconnected, and thereby reflect an intersection in regards to social relationships.  

Although public opinion has shifted in the last 30 years, the social ostracism of gays, lesbians, and bisexuals have helped to reinforce those narrow societal norms. Some individuals may find it harder, to express their authentic self.  

According to (Kertzner, Meyer, Frost, & Stirratt, 2009), a person who is a sexual minority will benefit from participating in the gay community and receiving affirmative social standards.  Disclosure of sexual identity increases the opportunity for an individual to identify with the in-group.  Support and acceptance from the in-group correlate strongly to psychological well-being.

One particular area of interest is the intersection of religion and sexuality.  As reported by (Gonzalez Cerna, 2010), some gay men and women might have strong ties to their religion, but after coming out, find themselves without familial or spiritual support.  In the United States, Black and Latino communities tend to be more religion-centric, and strongly negative views about the gay community are reinforced via the church. 

In many cultures, there is a stigma surrounding homosexuality, and many gay men and women may choose to identify with their racial identity, as opposed to their sexual identity.
For some individuals, managing and expressing their homosexual identity in different social settings is a seamless transition, but for many Black and Latino gay, lesbian and bisexuals, the church is an oppressive institution. Many individuals choose to suppress their homosexuality when it intersects with the church.  

The experience of the LGBT identity can initially be quite isolating.
It is a connection with the community that heals the wounds internalized by LGBT people from a heterocentric and sometimes-unwelcoming dominant culture. (Bieschke, Perez, & DeBord, 2007, p. 73)
A connection is important for LGBTQ individuals,
 “authenticity is the outcome of a social process where one’s preferred identity claims are acknowledged . . . And people’s stories are linked around shared beliefs, commitments, and purposes. (Behan, 1999, p. 123)

What is Internalized homophobia?



Simply put, internalized homophobia happens when LGBTQ individuals are subjected to society’s negative perceptions, intolerance, and stigmas towards LGBTQ people, and as a result, turn those ideas inward believing they are true.
It has been defined as 
‘the gay person’s direction of negative social attitudes toward the self, leading to a devaluation of the self and resultant internal conflicts and poor self-regard.’ (Meyer and Dean, 1998).
Or as   “the self-hatred that occurs as a result of being a socially stigmatized person.” (Locke, 1998).
Researchers have suggested that using ‘heterosexism’, ‘self-prejudice,’ and ‘homonegativity,’ in addition to the widely accepted term “internalized homophobia,” can help to add depth to our comprehension of the true meaning of the issue.

The real culprit is an aggressive heterosexist society that is defining what is “normal,” and therefore what is “right” and “wrong,” through laws, policy, culture, education, healthcare, religion and family life. This systemic oppression is meant to enforce the gender binary, marginalize LGBTQ people, and keep heterosexual people and their relationships in a position of dominance and privilege.

Uriah Cty, M.A., LMFT 
Psychotherapist 
License No. LMFT 121606

“Nothing can dim the light that shines within you” -Maya Angelou 



                   


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

9 things about MLK's speech and the March on Washington

 #MLK  #MartinLutherKingJr  #MarchonWashington #IHaveaDream "I have a dream this afternoon that my four little children will not come up in the same young days that I came up within, but they will be judged on the basis of the content of their character, not the color of their skin." The Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. spoke these words in 1963, but this was not the speech that would go down as one of the most important addresses in US history. King spoke these words in Detroit, two months before he addressed a crowd of nearly 250,000 with his resounding "I Have a Dream" speech at the March on Washington for Freedom and Jobs on August 28, 1963. Several of King's staff members actually tried to discourage him from using the same "I have a dream" refrain again. As we all know, that didn't happen. But how this pivotal speech was crafted is just one of several interesting facts about what is one of the most important moments in the 2...

The Price of Perfection

#Perfection #CopingStrategies #Mindfulness #AllorNothingThinking #Catastrophizing, Broadly speaking, perfectionism is a personality style where people set exceptionally high standards for themselves in order to achieve perfection. However, the motive behind perfectionism is not the achievement of perfection, but rather, the avoidance of failure. More simply speaking, perfectionism is really a type of anxiety. Anxiety is adaptive and evolutionarily speaking, protects us from danger. In cavemen days, anxiety helped our ancestors flee from predators. However, in modern days, rarely do we need to flee from predators. Consequently, maladaptive anxiety is increasingly common and acts as a faulty alarm system- alerting us to danger as if there were a predator chasing us when actually we are not in real danger. In regards to perfectionism, those with this type of anxiety are so afraid to fail, they go to great lengths to avoid the possibility of failure. Underneath, an alarm system is g...

Want U 2 Know You're Beautiful

Forget About What you've been told. Want U 2 Know You're Beautiful.   A future classic by Laroye and Lee Wilson.  Summer vibes, melodies, deep chords & bass lines are featured throughout, with an inspirational message letting you know that you are "BEAUTIFUL."  On remix duties,  Casamena gives us the AfroTech mix  Released July 30, 2021 Extended Mix and Deep Dream Mix produced by Thomas Arroyo (Laroye) Vocals written and performed by Lee Wilson Casamena Club mix by Carlos Mena Mastering by Cody "Coflo" Ferreira for MindBodyAudio.com A&R: Coflo Executive Producer: Carlos Mena Coflo@ocharecords.com license  all rights reserved #AfricanAmericantherapist #Asian,#BlackMaleTherapist #LGBTAffirmingTherapy #LatinX,#MentalHealth #NativeAmerican #POC #Psychotherapy #T5LT #Therapy #Triple5LightTherapy #White

The Chilled Cow: LoFi Beats ,Study, Chill, or Nap

#ChilledCow #HipHop #LoFi #Chill #Nap #Chill Welcome to the sleepy LoFi hip hop radio. This playlist contains the smoothest LoFi hip hop beats, perfect to help you Study, or chill 😴